To be attracted to intelligence is a real thing, these people are called sapiosexuals. They believe that someone’s mind is sensual than their body. Can you be this?
Attraction is a funny thing. Some people are in long, dark and beautiful, some have a soft place for white, and some are attracted to (sapiosexual) intellect. In an era where everything is about quick satisfaction, tinder hooks and internet dating sites, someone is finding it difficult to find “real”.
Is the perception of Sapiosexual only a matter of the past, or is there a attraction for today’s intellect which is strong and rich today?
What is sapiosexual and what does it mean to be attracted to intellect?
Sapiosexual means that you fall in love with someone, the way they look or external beauty they display the world. But this is not just about falling in love with their intellect.
It is about finding a relationship with someone who goes beyond physical and is in real realm. Sapiosexual relationships have some fun looking things.
How common is sapiosexuality?
A study conducted by the University of Western Australia found that about 8% of people between the age of 18–35 are Sapiosexuals.
However, it seems that dating sites and apps are becoming more common for intelligence among children aged 30–45 years.
People also give good decisions, being respectable and understanding, intelligence with all qualities, which we would definitely like to see in a partner.
How Sapiosexuality works in relationships
People who are sapiosexuals usually find themselves in relationships with people who have a similar orientation. These types of couples often enjoy intellectual activity as an emotional relationship or an integral part of the physical foreplay.
There are some other ways here that are attracted to intelligence functions in relationships.
1. Foreplay is different
While the foreplay of most people is physical and contains things like dirty talks or nude pictures, in which sapiosexuals are turned on by debate or stimulating interaction.
They can do things like reading an intellectually provocative book loudly or discussing an intellectual concept with their partner.
2. Relationship goes on more slowly
But it takes more time to know someone at the intellectual level and can delay sexual attraction until they are fully connected.
3. There may be a partner that may be a partner
If you are a partner for someone who is attracted to intelligence, you may be worried about not meeting their intellectual needs. So, this can cause insecurity in the relationship.
Are you a sapiosexual?
Those who identify as sapiosexuals, admit that they are highly attracted to those who are wise, well read, and are reportedly having an extraordinary high -ign officer. Even without evidence, just listening to the numbers will probably be a sapiosexual self.
There are many reasons why sapiosexuals get intelligent people to find oh-so-hot, but it seems that it is mostly related to how you experience intelligence.
Some are looking for some very intelligent people who have a career in one of many scientific areas, while there are some people who are simply well -read, eloquent and highly artistic.
It is mostly a vague appropriation that how smart they think is a person, but sometimes they are really looking for only a person who has general knowledge.
Indications that you can be a sapiosexual
If you have read this feature yet and belong to some points, you must be wondering if someone’s external appearance also matters to you or if you are more attracted to someone who is mentally stimulating.
Do you not understand why your friends pounce on traditionally attractive stranger at once or you get tired of shallow, meaningless relationships, you must be wondering if you are showing some signs of being a sapiosexual.
If you are still uncertain, read our points below to ensure if you are more attracted than the brain than beauty!
1. Your favorite foreplay is having
The phrase “they have a good personality” do not fear you. Usually a person uses to cover the fact that a person cannot be so kind on the eyes, a good personality is a good reason for you to meet someone.
2. Your perception of the best date discussing the complexities of life is coffee
When you think about your first date, it is not about a fancy restaurant or a concert. You know that there are types of places that people go to meet each other, without really find time to know them.
A cup of coffee, harassing the book shop, or discussing the meaning of life is a better way to know what they want to know at any time or effort.
3. You understand that intelligence is not about grade on paper or high teaching degrees you get
Being attracted to someone due to their intelligence means that you are at the same emotional level. They are spontaneous, kind, thoughtful and careful – all things that swoop your heart. The way they see that their inner beauty and heart takes a seat.
4. You don’t want to start a re -start, just to love someone
Instead, you look for someone with whom you can have a funny conversation and which is very good, with which they are a moving re -beginning billboards.
5. You are looking for someone who can work a room, not with all eyes but with all ears
Instead of walking with the most beautiful date on your arm, you want to enter the room knowing that when you are two separately they can create your grip.
You know that their intelligence and ability to adapt say all this. They do not need to lift a high cup size or bench in a certain amount of. They can talk to fifteen to ninety and in between.
6. You seek someone who is not about cutting the corners … even in communication
If you are a little, if not completely, then the text message from someone is closed by the wrong “there, their, or they.”
7. Going to the theater is also not in the realm you want to do together
When you date someone and are attracted to intelligence, you find that you do not even consider going to the movie theater even after a couple.
The first few months are filled with mental discovery. There is no dearth of challenging subjects to test with each other, or to talk about principles, the last thing you want to do can waste to stare at your time to stare at a screen when you can meet the brain.
8. You will discuss the Pythagorian theorem on the cover of “US” magazine
There is no time for gossip or upheaval, you seek a deep emotional relationship with the person with whom you are, not a person you can have with a person next to you at home.
9. When you go to films, it is better to be meaningful
When you decide that you want to go to films, you choose something with a major plot, some complex, or a psychological thriller.
If you spend your time in the theater, it is better mentally qualified in two hours.
10. Questions are not irritable, they thought
Not everyone likes the endless questions that can be found by knowing anyone.
This does not mean that they can only be an emotional question. Talking and sharing about your goals, desires and dreams, all are under the scope of attraction for sapiosuel.
What are the types of sapiosexuals?
If you are really a sapiosexual, still it is still a matter of which type of smart person you are attracted to. But there is no way to estimate a person’s intelligence or unless you know them better, they are knowledgeable.
Ironically, yes, but it is the great reason that we have designed a list of stereotypeical smart people, which most likely that we are stars of imaginations of many sapiosexuals.
The most common sapiosexual fantasies for women
In fact, a pair of coarse-rim glasses and a well-ring to kill a mockingbird can meet your sapiosexual fantasies, but here are 8 Sapiosexual “types” that can heat you under the collar.
1. Bill Gates
Whether he may or may not be a computer genius, but just looking at his horny glasses, you know that he is definitely the man with whom you are going to make smart children.
2. Mark zuckerberg
This is Bill Gates, except that he wears the same color shirt every day.
3. Plato rebirth
This man is one of the many men who can cite philosophers *sometimes wrongly *and can make you feel as if he is the most clever person in the room, even if he just called a completely fuck that you will never understand *or without any dictionary *.
4. artist
These people are said to have too much IQ. Yes, they are eloquent like Plato’s people and yes, they wear the same color shirt just like Mark Zuckerberg.
The society has already been normalized, so they are probably all smart, and some of them can also be really large smart-cards.
5. Doctor
They are the most prized catch for late twenty-somothings, but unfortunately, only available are available only you will find either getting married to their college girlfriends or are very old to take you to a threshold.
6. Scientist
They have the ability to save the world using only a microscope and Petri dish. They are rarely available due to their busy programs and their transfer to Zimbabwe, but you still get time to see Google to see if they are still alive.
7. Worker
He has the ability to recite the constitution, one of his intelligence markers. It is completely sexy, especially when they express it with an ire or passion.
His hobby involves passing and lobbying hundreds of laws and rejoicing with passion when a politician finally puts a stop sign in a danger area.
8. Man
This man can be any man.
The most common sapiosexual fantasies for men
For men, their image of the right intelligent woman is slightly different from the version of women.
Is your favorite sapiosual fantasy one of the girls who are always with dirty hair and glasses that always slip from her nose because she holds another falling book? Or is it one of those well-put-one philosophy tutors who always look under control?
It is likely that your ideal smart girl comes in one of these categories:
1. Tina Fey
Age is never a factor as long as he can whip a vitrimism on a moment notice and you feel really bad because of your foolish thoughts. But it only wants you more.
2. Hipster Geek
He is attractively attractive with proportional important figures. She rolled into a gamer, cosplay, bibliopile, cinefiles, and foody, with bonus points to have huge tattoos on her body.
3. Golden Girl
Every school, workplace and hobby place is one. This girl is the most beautiful, best, best carrying girl you will ever see.
You cannot help, but can admire its overall effect because your 50 colleagues/classmates/gym friends compared each. He is probably the most clever, just because it’s the only thing you have not thought of describing with him.
4. Amy Farah Fouler
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