What is fucker? Why PUAs Hate Them But Women Love Dating These Guys

So, you’ve heard this term and wondered to yourself, ‘What exactly is code?’ Don’t worry… you’re about to find out.

Pua: Pick up the cast. You know, the men who take to the streets to boast about making terribly toxic or sexist comments about men, women, and the dating world. It seems like every few months, a new person gets called out for spreading harmful messages on social media, and yet they always respond tenfold.

So, what is a code?

According to Dictionary.com, the word ‘chod’ comes from the word ‘chod’. The term may date back to 1968 – a teen term of unknown origin. Chod means penis, which you probably thought meant going to this facility. But, it is also slang for someone being stupid or foolish. This is the part that PUA really worked on.

In the PUA world, “chode” is used to refer to someone with “weak game.” In their eyes, sex is not something women can do, nor do they really want to do it.

Chodes identify as not wanting to be players, but because PUAs can’t imagine a world where men want something more than just sex from their relationships, they do it to “improve their game.” Denial or laziness.

Why should we all be more fucked-up?

PUAs use the word “fucker” as an insult, but as you’re about to see, there’s actually nothing offensive about the qualities that codes represent.

So, why do we all have to be fuckers?

1. The dude thinks learning is a game wrong

We don’t know what kind of self-obsessed world PUAs are living in if they think every woman is playing in their weird game. But, in the real world, women are simply going about their day with a heavy burden on their minds.

“Has the milk gone bad?” “When are the bills due?” “What materials does my child need for his homework project?” This is what women are thinking about, they are completely unaware that the guy standing at the bar is working out a formula between time spent putting this woman down = guaranteed sex tonight.

The fucker doesn’t care about improving his game because the women aren’t playing it! Instead, he trusts that he will naturally meet women who are compatible with him.

2. Fucker has hobbies

To a PUA, if your hobbies aren’t based solely on picking up women, you’re a fucker. For example, if you play video games, you are redirecting your valor into virtual reality when you could be directing it toward reality.

3. The fucker thinks he deserves love

PUAs don’t think people deserve love. They think that to get women, you have to compete with other men, face rejection countless times, and fight hard to get a woman’s attention.

But take it from us, you don’t really do that! Not every woman out there will like you, and that’s okay. You don’t need to devote all your free time to having sex with as many people as possible. Instead, focus only on building connections and relationships with people you feel naturally attracted to.

4. The guy does what the women want him to do

Apparently, there’s nothing manly about listening to your partner. Wrong!

There is nothing manly about ignoring your partner. In fact, manhood is all about respecting people the way you want to be respected, so respecting your partner is incredibly manly.

If someone tells you otherwise, don’t listen to them. They are just trying to put others down to make themselves look better.

5. Fuckers hate manhood

One code definitely disagrees with a certain type of masculinity, and that is toxic masculinity.

You know, the “men don’t cry,” “men don’t take shit from women,” and “men have to be tough” mentality. Chods don’t like this way of thinking because they know how harmful and toxic it is.

PUAs look down on men who try to stand up to this toxic masculinity. A fucker would try to protect a girlfriend from a guy who’s abusing her, and apparently that’s not a good thing?

6. Fuck respects sex

According to PUA, codes have a bad reputation when it comes to sex. And the interesting thing is that it’s because they actually respect sex.

PUAs tend to think of guys as naive about sex when in reality, they are the ones who are naive about sex. They think that sex, or any interaction between men and women, is a power struggle. Even in their most intimate moments, they think they always have to be on guard.

But sex is not a power struggle. This is not a competition among men to fight other men between a woman’s legs to prove themselves worthy mates.

Sex is intimate, it’s personal, and it’s beautiful. Whether you’re having sex with a FWB or a soulmate, it’s more than just a chance to prove yourself to women and men. Fuckers are fully aware of this.

7. The fucker complains about love

Everyone complains about love. Love sucks sometimes! You may love someone, but they don’t love you back. Or you love someone but there is some obstacle standing in the way of you being together. Whatever the scenario, love can be hard sometimes. And when things get tough, we complain.

PUAs look down on those who complain about the trials of love because they have permanently built up their walls against love. They do not allow love to enter their lives because, again, everything is a power struggle.

But as hard as love can be, it can also be incredibly rewarding, so in the end it’s only the PUAs who are missing out.

8. Being fucked makes you feel heartbroken

Codes don’t use that as a manipulation tactic to get heartbroken women into bed. Codes deal with heartbreak, because when you lose someone you love, it’s heartbreaking.

However PUAs cannot understand this. They see a man who is going through heartbreak as a fool who is trying to use emotions to manipulate women.

9. The fucker thinks…and does very little

This is another way of saying that they think before they act. And if they realize that the consequences of the risk are not worth the reward, they will not take action.

But PUAs are not considerate of others, so they think less and do more. It only hurts the people around you, so why would you want to pay attention to that? Be like a thief, think about your actions.

10. The fucker knows how the world should work

Well, PUAs have got something right for once: Codes know how the world works.

They know that women are not just standing bait, waiting for some man to bite them. Women, like any other person, are just going about their day. Sometimes, they have a good day, and sometimes they have a very bad day.

11. The guy believes in a soulmate

He believes there is a person for each of us – that special someone – that once in a lifetime person. And there is nothing wrong with that!

Some people are hopeless romantics, some enjoy the freedom of the single life. There is no right answer to how someone should view love, except when that view is too toxic and manipulative.

If you think there is a soulmate out there for you, and you have no interest in playing the field, then you are no less than a man to her. In fact, you are just as strong as any other person.

When does joking become being a ‘nice guy’?

It seems as if PUAs have coined so many terms to define men that they have become confused! Because of that, there are some defined properties of codes that do not actually apply to codes at all. Instead, they actually apply to the “good guys”.

If you didn’t already know, the “good guys” are actually the opposite of their given title. They are men who treat women well only with the hope that it will trick them.

So, when is a nice guy just a fake fucker in disguise?

1. The nice guy thinks he’s a ‘good guy’

Well, that certainly helps. If a guy says he’s a nice guy, what he means is that he plays the same manipulation games on women that PUAs use, except he uses friendliness and fake goodness instead of toxic ego.

Really good people don’t brag about how good they are. Because being nice to other people is common decency.

2. The nice guy is very manipulative

Everyone wants to feel some degree of power over their life. The good man’s sphere of influence is under subtle pressure. Emotional manipulation.

3. A good man is a decision maker

PUAs – how much does it cost ****

Pickup artists claim they are helping men learn the truth behind their desire for women so they can get lucky in the dating field. Although their intentions seem good, it’s all a sham.

Yes, it’s clear that PUAs are bad because they say absolutely horrible sexist things about women. But in reality, PUAs are horrible because all they do is humiliate and embarrass other men.

redefining code

Pua, good boy, fuck. There are a lot of words out there to describe men, but what do they all have in common?

Even if you’re not dating to find your true love, dating is still about finding someone you’re compatible with. It’s about getting to know someone on an intimate level, sharing parts of yourself that you rarely share with anyone, and exploring this connection on an emotional and physical level.

No matter how committed two people are to each other, dating is a give-and-take. So, let’s get rid of these toxic words and encourage men to be the best versions of themselves.

Fuckers are just normal, well-intentioned, well-rounded men. Like simple.

So, we hope you now understand how great it is to fuck. This means embracing your emotions, treating relationships with genuine respect and intention, and not letting toxic ideas of masculinity dominate your life. Get out there and embrace your humility!