Sometimes, being in love is weird being two people together

As you move forward in life, you encounter different types of people. There will be some people who will hurt you and make you cry. You are going to meet people who will make you so happy that you will be smiling from ear to ear whenever the two of you are together. There will be certain people who will make you laugh until your core explodes. But even though you meet so many different kinds of people, you will rarely find someone who really understands you.

As humans, we all have this innate feeling that we should be accepted and loved by the people around us. We always want to be loved and appreciated. It seems as if our natural desire is to seek the favor of the people we encounter every day. But on a more basic level, we are always trying to understand. We still want to make sure people know why we exist and why we do what we do. Somehow, feeling understood almost feels like your existence is being validated. And feeling appreciated is a big aspect of being loved by someone.

Most people you meet in your everyday life won’t understand what you’re looking for. Many of the people you constantly interact with don’t get what you want from life and what motivates you. Very few people truly empathize with you whenever you are going through struggles and trials. The person who understands you best will be yourself. And this can feel lonely and overwhelming for many people.

To make matters worse, many of the people you are going to meet may also tell you that certain aspects of your life need to change. Many people will make you feel bad for liking a certain thing or being a certain way. You will encounter many people who will criticize and make fun of you. There are a lot of people who want to bring you down, even if you have the best and purest intentions. It’s just a fact of life. In your world where you are the hero, you will have specific rivals who will refute your every move.

And sometimes, dealing with these people can be tiring. You know that you cannot do things as you please without caring about the people around you. You understand that you have a personal responsibility towards society. To be a functional member of the world, you must adhere to certain social norms and expectations. This is why you crave acceptance. You want to be liked because you think the more people you have on your side, the better. You don’t want to look back in your life and see that you have been alone every step of the way. However, subjecting yourself to other people’s standards and expectations can also be exhausting.

This is where falling in love comes in. Because once you find that one special person who will be able to bring a feeling of happiness, joy, fulfillment and excitement into your life at a level that no one else can, it will be done. to be different. Certainly, you may be having difficulty subjecting yourself to the corrupt and negative energies of others. You may be feeling overwhelmed. But with the person you love, you should always feel welcome to be your true and authentic self.

Plus, you’re always made to feel like you can be “weird” and “abnormal” yourself because you know you’ll never be judged. There is no decision in love. There is no harsh criticism in love. Understanding and patience will always be there.

When you fall in love with someone you don’t have to put on a mask. You don’t have to hide behind any curtains or masks. You are not afraid of being criticized or called weird. When you fall in love, you know that there is someone who will always make you feel accepted, no matter what you do or say. When you have someone who loves you, it will be like nothing you could have ever imagined. It would be like being an expanded version of yourself that would give you the affirmation and validation you want from everyone else. Somehow, being in love makes your existence feel more valid.