Vaginal masturbation may not be on your sexual radar, but it’s probably something you can enjoy! Here’s what you need to know.
Whenever people hear about vaginal fisting, they start trembling with fear. Most consider it controversial, while some even see it as a cultural taboo.
The mere sound of the word “fisting” would probably make even the most arrogant of us scream something like, “Why the hell would you want someone to put their entire hand inside you?”
What is fisting?
Fisting is an urban term for the sexual act of inserting the hand inside the vagina for sexual satisfaction. Yes, it is possible to have your entire hand inside a pussy! If an 8 pound baby can fit in there, your hand can too!
Other names for fisting include fist f*cking, pussy fisting, punch f*cking and lesbian fisting. It is called ‘fisting’ mainly because as you move forward in performing this so-called forbidden sexual act, your hand will curl into a fist shape while passing through the vaginal passage, hence its interesting name.
However, let us tell you that although masturbating can be one of the most sensual sexual experiences anyone can have, it is not for everyone. Not all women are as huge and flexible as porn stars. Thus, it will be very difficult to masturbate a woman who is quite tight.
How does vaginal masturbation feel and can you orgasm from it?
Like any type of sexual activity, the experience of masturbating is different for each person who tries it, and the person who is masturbating feels different for both.
For the recipient, most say it feels extremely intense and gives them a sense of ‘fullness’. For the person masturbating, it is a warm sensation that feels very tight around their hand.
Look, some people enjoy it, others can’t even think of trying. Some people try it and never do it again. But it is true that by masturbating in the right way you can achieve orgasm.
Is it safe to masturbate vaginally and does it hurt?
There’s that phrase again – when done correctly, vaginal masturbation is safe. However, it is very easy to do it wrong and cause pain or even harm to the person you are masturbating. For this reason, it is extremely important to move very slowly and listen to your body and your partner.
There’s always a little discomfort when you first try it – while the vagina is elastic, that doesn’t mean it won’t wonder what’s going on when a hand appears.
How can you make masturbation more enjoyable?
Here are some vaginal fisting tips that can serve as a guide for you. Enjoy masturbation for all!
1. Use your brain
Determine whether you and your partner are both ready for this intense sexual activity. Talk about it before you try it and hear each other’s thoughts about the whole masturbation thing.
If you don’t want to do this, then tell your partner that you need more time. If you’re scared, let your partner know you’re scared. The decision should be mutual.
Don’t force anything! This cannot be compromised!
2. Learn more before trying vaginal masturbation
Prepare yourself by learning more about masturbation. There are plenty of resources available online and in print that you can use to inform yourself about the dos and don’ts of masturbation.
3. Keep everything very clean
If you are a donor, you should ensure that your nails are short and cut without any sharp edges to reduce the chance of any splitting or tearing. Your hands should also be as clean as possible to reduce the chance of infection.
Hands should be free of any jewelery or hand accessories that could cause injury or get stuck in the process. There’s no such thing as fashion fisting anyway. If you’re the receiver, make sure your lady parts are pristine.
4. Wear gloves
Wearing latex gloves may not be very appealing to everyone. Some people find gloves to be a perfect mood buster, just like condoms, while others forget about them once things start heating up.
5. Do foreplay like there is no tomorrow
Extreme stimulation is necessary before vaginal fisting is possible. The receiver must be very relaxed and highly aroused in order to expand the vaginal walls and loosen the muscles to accommodate the fist.
6. Use high quality lube
Always provide lube, even if you think you can get her to secrete enough lube on her own. Be generous with the lube—if you think you’ve used enough lube, add a little extra just to be sure.
7. Go slowly and gradually
Don’t try to dip your entire hand in at once. Vaginal fisting is a marathon, not a sprint! Start with one or two fingers, and then slowly add another, and then another until the fourth finger is in. The giver should also feel comfortable while doing this.
Make a small outstretched duck beak shape by joining your fingers together so that your fingers are compressed together as much as possible.
Once the receiver is comfortable with four fingers, place your thumb under your palm and gently press until your knuckles are in. If you go past this point, your hand will naturally curl into a fist. Otherwise, step back and take a short break.
8. Communicate
Talk to your partner and read his body language. Watch her facial reactions and listen carefully to her wishes. Most importantly, obey His commandments. As the giver, your main responsibility is to take care of the recipient.
You can always encourage, but if your partner tells you to stop, for God’s sake, stop. If she asks you to slow down a bit, stop arguing and do it! Masturbation is all about giving pleasure to your partner! It doesn’t mean anything anymore if you’re causing too much pain.
9. Keep it real and use safe words
Safe words are important in any type of sexual activity that requires complete trust and dedication. Using this concept, the giver and the recipient have to agree in advance to use a specific safe word when the situation gets difficult!
10. Remember to enjoy it
Although vaginal masturbation is a serious sexual act, you should still be able to enjoy it. This may be a little inconvenient, but it is definitely beneficial in the end.
At most, it should be able to create a special intimate connection between both parties, a more intimate bond full of love and respect.
If you are doing this for the first time, chances are you won’t be able to go the full distance. The thumbs and knuckles thing may be too much for you to handle. But don’t be discouraged if this isn’t your thing.
11. Remove your hand carefully
12. Know your body
As a person who masturbates, make sure you listen to your body and know the signs that tell you when you’re in discomfort or when something doesn’t feel right.
Ultimately, you have to enjoy the action and if it’s excessively painful or you just feel something is wrong, use your safe word and your partner will stop. Vaginal masturbation isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay.
13. Be patient
The first few attempts at masturbation may not go so well, but if you want to keep trying, be patient. This isn’t natural for your body, so it’s normal to take some effort.
14. Avoid fisting gels with numbing agents
You may be tempted to take a fisting gel that contains a numbing agent, believing it will take away the initial discomfort. The point is that your body produces pain to let you know when something is wrong. If you numb it, you won’t know when something is seriously wrong.
15. Watch for signs of damage
Can you enjoy masturbation without a partner?
Theoretically, yes, but it would be quite difficult to do it yourself. You will need to be quite flexible and the effort can take away your joy.
Overall, most people enjoy vaginal masturbation as part of sex with their partner.
When to consult a doctor
Listen to your body. If you think you might get injured while masturbating, go see your doctor. Also, if you experience severe pain or spotting/bleeding, it is advisable to visit your doctor to check if everything is okay there.
Don’t worry, they’ve seen it all before!
Vaginal masturbation isn’t for everyone. Some are not even physically capable of doing this. But it’s not the end of the world, because there are hundreds more pleasures to enjoy together.
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