73 sexy tips, myths and reasons why you might love it!

Period sex may be taboo, but there’s really nothing wrong with it. This has huge benefits in many ways! Read on to find out more!

Having sex during menstruation is a personal choice, but it definitely comes with some strong opinions. Some people can’t stand the idea of ​​period sex, while others aren’t too concerned about it.

The truth is, as long as the whole idea of ​​having sex during your period doesn’t seem like a big change or a taboo subject on religious or social grounds, there’s nothing stopping you from trying it.

Do people like to have sex during your period?

Some people actually like it better than normal sex, call it a fetish or call it one of the many things guys are attracted to about girls.

For everyone else, it’s a unique experience worth trying at least once. Hardly anyone has ever been disappointed by this. In almost all cases, it is usually the girl who has the problem.

Myths about period sex

Having sex during menstruation is surrounded by millions of myths. Most *if not all* of them contain zero truth.

So, to help you understand the truth about period sex, let’s break down those barriers and put the myths to rest once and for all.

1. Period sex is impure or dirty

no it’s not. As long as you wash before and after, what’s impure?

2. Having sex during menstruation will make menstruation last longer.

3. Period sex increases the risk of sexually transmitted infections

You can get an STI during menstruation, and if you already have an STI, you can pass it on to your partner. But the same can be said for sex outside of your period. Basically, safe sex reduces the risk.

4. Menstrual blood is harmful or poisonous

This is blood. It’s not toxic or harmful, but obviously, it is a bodily fluid and is one of the ways STIs can spread. Again, safe sex!

5. Period sex is uncomfortable or painful for both partners

First of all, it should not be painful. If so, stop, because it means something is wrong. As far as discomfort goes? This is only inconvenient if you have a problem with it and in that case, it’s probably something you won’t enjoy.

6. Period sex is only for people who are kinky or have fetishes

Some people see it that way, but it’s just sex. There are no real complications associated with period sex, so there shouldn’t be anything weird about it unless you and your partner bring friction into the bedroom.

7. Having oral sex during menstruation is not healthy

As long as you’ve bathed well and aren’t on your heaviest days, there’s nothing wrong with oral sex during menstruation. Of course, using a dental dam eliminates any hygiene concerns.

8. Period sex is only for heterosexual couples

9. Period blood is disgusting or distasteful to the partner

For some, but not for all. It’s a personal thing that some people really don’t like or mind. That’s why communication is so important.

10. You are unable to get aroused or achieve orgasm during menstruation

Oh yes, you can! Some women find that they become more aroused during menstruation because of all the hormones. This makes it incredibly common for a woman to reach orgasm more than once during her period!

11. It’s impossible to conceive during your period

You can get pregnant at any time during your menstrual cycle, including periods. Yes, sometimes its probability is less, but that probability is never zero.

12. Period sex can disrupt the natural flow of the menstrual cycle

No it can’t.

13. Period sex increases the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease

14. Period blood smells, making sex unpleasant

In fact it shouldn’t smell bad. Taking a bath before sex will help relieve any anxiety.

15. Having sex during periods will make your partner lose interest in you.

This definitely shouldn’t happen! And if that happens, you really need to question your partner’s choices.

16. Getting engaged is a period, sex is disrespectful or offensive

17. You should avoid physical exercise during menstruation

No, in fact, light physical exercise can help reduce cramps. As long as you’re not swinging from chandeliers and having super-energetic sex, you should be fine.

18. You should completely abstain from sexual activities during menstruation

Great reasons to have sex during your period

Now that we’ve dispelled the myths about period sex, let’s focus on the good stuff. Here are some ways having sex during your period can be beneficial.

1. Your period will end sooner than usual

During your period, you bleed out every few days due to involuntary muscle contractions of your uterine walls.

When you orgasm during sex, your orgasm causes strong muscle spasms that drain your blood rapidly within a day or two.

2. Reduction in cramps

Period cramps put a girl’s body under a lot of stress, leading to more pain and mood swings.

When you have sex during your periods, a good orgasm releases a lot of feel-good hormones in your body which reduces the pain and makes you feel better instantly.

3. Some girls feel more sensual during menstruation

Are you one of them? Have you ever felt really aroused on the first day of your period or right before your period starts? This is due to all the hormonal changes that your body experiences during release.

4. Increased lubricity

That little bit of extra slip and slide makes sex feel a lot better, and a lot more comfortable too.

5. Enhances mood and relaxation

Sex in general releases feel-good hormones that make you feel happier, excited, and more relaxed. When you are on your period, you may feel agitated and your mood may change.

6. Increased sexual sensitivity

Your breasts and genitals in general become more sensitive during menstruation.

Some women find them too sensitive and in that case, perhaps period sex might be a little too intense for you. However, for many people, it helps make sex more pleasurable because of the increased response to touch.

7. Increased intimacy and connection

8. Discovery of new sensations and sexual experiences

Basically, you’re trying something new and the experience of having sex during your period will be a little different than outside of it. Discovering new sensations can open up your sexual experiences!

9. Increase body acceptance and body image

10. Increased sexual confidence and sense of empowerment

You will feel as if you are in control of your pleasure and that is a very powerful feeling indeed. All of this will help you build sexual confidence, and of course, it also helps build a positive body image.

11. Stress relief

Having an orgasm helps release pent-up stress, and can be a great help if you’re feeling particularly anxious during your period.

12. Better sleep

Sex is comfortable due to the hormones released from it. So if you’re struggling to get a good night’s sleep, having sex before bed can be a great way to unwind!

It may also be that you find it difficult to sleep during certain periods of menstruation, and in that case, sex can help you.

13. Improves hormonal balance

Sex can affect hormone levels to some extent, which can potentially lead to a more balanced menstrual cycle over time.

14. Boost the Immune System

Period sex can help boost your immune system and make it harder for you to get sick from every bug flying around.

Of course, the same can be said for sex outside of your period, so that’s a great excuse to keep it up!

15. Normalizing menstruation

Look, menstruation, periods, whatever you want to call it, it is all normal. This is not something we should be ashamed of or talk about in hushed tones. It is a natural part of the female body.

Reasons why you may not want period sex

If your partner is willing to get down and have great period sex, we say all power to both of you. That being said, not everyone will want or need to try it again after doing it once.

Because we want to give you a balanced view, let’s now talk about why having sex during your period might not be the best idea.

1. How do you keep the conversation going?

If you’ve just started dating someone, how should you really think about having sex during your period? We completely agree with the statement that if you can’t bring up the ex, you shouldn’t have sex in the first place.

2. Prepare for boring situations

When your genitals are bleeding, the Passion Pretzel Position is definitely getting crossed off your list.

Having sex during your period can keep you from feeling really loose and having crazy sex because you can only really have sex in certain positions: missionary or in the shower.

3. Problem of cramps

While some theories say that the dopamine released after orgasm is a fantastic pain reliever, people who have actually had *period* sex may have the opposite opinion.

According to some experts, menstrual blood flow may feel heavier and cramps more intense after having sex during menstruation. Why? When you orgasm, the walls of your uterus contract and shed old tissue lining and blood more rapidly than normal.

4. You may not feel very sexy

5. It’s absolutely messy

Even if you lay out a few sheets before your period, it does not guarantee that you will get a mess-free bed.

Both you and your partner are likely to have blood on your hands, your thighs, your genitals, and other nooks and crannies that would be better left blood-free.

If you go the route of period sex, we highly, highly, highly suggest using condoms for easy cleanup. That being said, depending on how heavy your flow is, you may both need to shower afterward as well.

6. You may be too sensitive

We’ve already mentioned that your breasts and genitals are likely to be more sensitive during menstruation, and this can be both a benefit and a disadvantage.

7. Heavy days have come

During the hardest days of your period, you may not feel like having sex, and your partner may also feel frustrated by this.

If you are going to have sex during your period, it is best to do so when the hardest days have passed and you are in the ‘near the end’ days.

8. Personal hygiene concerns and fear of infection

If you are completely preoccupied with hygiene issues and fear of infection related to period sex, you will be so distracted that you will not be able to enjoy sex at all.

You will be so overwhelmed by the mess and the problems associated with it that you will want everything to end quickly.

9. Lack of desire

Some women don’t feel like having sex during that time of the month, and if that’s the case, you shouldn’t try it. It varies from woman to woman.

10. Lack of partner’s comfort

If your partner looks even a little bit uncomfortable, you will feel uncomfortable too and overall it will make the whole thing less enjoyable.

It’s important to talk about period sex, but remember that talking about it and doing it are two completely different things.

11. Lack of spontaneity

Period sex isn’t really something you can decide to do right away. Especially if your flow is still a little heavy, you may need to go to the bathroom to clean up or even take a shower.

12. Inconveniences and interruptions

You may have to stop in between to check how things are there. That’s not sexy, is it? This is not ideal for interrupting…