Family is supposed to be a safe haven, a place where you feel loved, supported, and accepted for who you are. However, sometimes family members can become jealous and jealous of each other, leading to tension and conflict. If you suspect that you have a jealous family member, confronting the issue can be challenging. Here are five signs that you may have a jealous family member:
1. They constantly compare themselves to you
Jealous family members may always try to compare themselves with you. They may feel threatened by your accomplishments, talents, or assets and try to minimize or diminish them. They may say things like, “Well, if I had XYZ I could do that too,” or “It’s really no big deal, I could do that too.”
Jealous family members may make nasty comments or backhanded compliments to belittle your accomplishments or make you feel bad about yourself. For example, they might say, “Wow, I’m surprised you got that job despite your lack of experience,” or “You look great, but I could never wear that dress.”
3. They try to destroy your success
Jealous family members may try to hinder your success or progress. For example, they may spread rumors about you or your accomplishments, refuse to offer help or support, or intentionally give you bad advice.
4. They become defensive or angry when you succeed
Jealous family members may become defensive or angry when you succeed. They may try to downplay your success or make excuses as to why they haven’t had the same success. They may become angry or dismissive when you talk about your accomplishments or progress.
5. They try to control or manipulate you
Jealous family members may try to control or manipulate you to maintain their power or influence over you. For example, they may use guilt, shame, or fear to convince you to do what they want or make you feel bad about your choices.
Dealing with jealous family members can be challenging, but it’s essential to recognize the signs so you can take steps to protect yourself. It is important to set boundaries, communicate clearly and firmly, and seek support from other family members or a therapist. Remember, you don’t have to let a jealous family member control or diminish your happiness or success.
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