28 anal positions and rim job tips to eat your booty like a boss

If you’ve never given a rim job before, but you’re willing to try, it’s important to know what to expect, how to do it safely, and how to make it feel good.

Not everyone likes to eat donkey. But once you learn more about the art of analingus and rim jobs, there’s a good chance you’ll become extremely curious.

Analingus is definitely taboo, but you’d be surprised at the number of people who actually enjoy it. It’s one of those things you won’t know you like until you do. Remember, the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings and there is a very real possibility of a wonderful orgasm.

Of course, if you’re providing rim work, there’s a lot of information you need to know beforehand. There are very real hygiene concerns you need to cover, while also making sure you’re both completely sure you want to try it.

What is Eating Ass and where does the term ‘rim job’ come from?

Ass eating is literally just that, it’s when you go down on your partner and put your tongue in their butt hole. So then, what is analingus, or rim job? All those words have the same meaning in some way or the other.

ass and anal eating

Donkey eating and anal promiscuity are synonyms. Both mean sticking your tongue up and around your partner’s ass.

rimming or rim job

The specific action of placing one’s tongue around the edge of the anus. Rimming is basically a technique called a “tongue twister” that is performed on the anus.

You spread the person’s cheeks with your hands and then make circular movements around and on the anus with your tongue. This is the basic movement. Play with different speeds and pressures as you get more interested in it.

Why eat donkeys when you can go down on them?

Technically, you’re still down to eat their ass, just like you’re going to fuck them or eat pussy. But we know what you mean, why should you eat ass when there are other things to play with?

Call eating ass a fad, or maybe it’s the new “thing” to do out there. Go back fifty years in history, and if you told anyone you eat pussy for pleasure they would think you were crazy.

Of course, there are ancient texts hundreds and thousands of years old where eating cats and ass is talked about in literature, especially in the Kama Sutra. But that doesn’t mean that eating pussy was mainstream foreplay until recently.

What does donkey taste like?

A very valid question, and honestly, this thought probably crosses the mind of every person who’s eaten ass, at least for the first time.

If you’re doing it right and eating clean ass, it should taste like nothing! Or more accurately, it should taste like some other part of your partner’s body – like their thigh, their back, or their face.

Do you really want to eat ass?

If you are curious about rimming, you should explore this idea and try it out. But really, if you’re not interested in it, don’t do it. If you are not interested in it you will not have any enjoyable experience. If you want to do it then do it and if your partner is pressuring you then get a new one.

More often than not, people enjoy eating ass because there is something magical that gives the “eater” extra pleasure. They enjoy eating ass because it excites their partner and gives them a completely new sexual excitement that they may have never experienced before.

How should you tell your partner about anal fissure?

If you’re interested in eating ass, that’s great! But you have to make sure that your partner is ready for it. It doesn’t matter whether they’ll be the giver or the taker, not everyone wants a tongue in their ass. Consent is important. Just talk it over with your partner and see if they’re willing to try analingus.

If you’re suggesting eating ass, listen to your partner’s concerns with an open mind and remember that if they don’t want to do it, you shouldn’t force them.

If your partner is suggesting this to you, avoid being critical and be a little more open-minded when you talk. Don’t push this idea away just because you think it’s gross.

Hygiene FAQs

make sure you are In fact Clean up before you let someone on you. And likewise, if you’re going to eat someone’s booty, give them a heads up so they can wash down and back up with extra care.

Want to take it a step further? Insert a quarter inch of your finger into your buttocks and move it under running water. And once you feel clean enough, wash your butthole again with soap and water.

You don’t really need to take this extra step, but if it makes you feel cleaner and less awkward having someone eat your ass, there’s no harm in doing it.

Many people who have had bad experiences with analingus complain about hygiene. Nobody wants to eat dirty ass. Take a bath before having sex. And place it into your anus with your finger, making sure it is clean.

Eating booty for the first time? best steps for beginners

If you’re warming up to eating ass for the first time and are feeling awkward about the whole experience, try using it as foreplay during shower sex.

Get completely clean and ask your partner to lie down in the tub *best option*, or stand with their legs spread under the shower *second best option*. Now all you have to do is eat their stuff, just like you would eat their pussy.

What does a rim job really feel like?

There are lots of nerve endings in your anus. Without getting too technical, your donkey has a variety of nerve endings that can pick up the smallest tingles. Here are some of the nerve endings that are in your ass.

1. Cross End-Bulb: These nerve endings can detect subtle changes in temperature.

2. Meissner’s corpuscles: It helps you experience the sensation of touch.

3. Pacinian corpuscles: They can detect the smallest differences in pressure around the anus.

4. Genital Granules: If there is any friction, these nerve endings can tell immediately.

Place your tongue on your partner’s ass hole, and every single one of those nerve endings will send signals of pure pleasure up their ass and up to their brain.

All the moves you need to make to eat your booty like a boss

You don’t know what you’re missing until you try it. Just take a few small steps, and before you know it, you’ll be eating ass like it’s your favorite thing!

If you want to know how to eat donkey, here are some things you need to master.

1. Your tongue is your best friend

When it comes to sucking and getting fucked, your tongue is the real superstar here. Once you are in a comfortable position, start licking around your partner’s buttocks and slowly work your way up to their ass hole. And once you get there, lick it slowly and gently a few times.

2. Stimulate the anus first

Now that you have realized that your partner will involuntarily clench their buttocks until they get used to the sensation, you need to warm up the area and relax your partner.

So, before using your magic tongue, rub and kiss the area around the anus, slowly making your way to the anus.

Then, use your tongue, lick the area around it, and then move towards the anus. If you do it right and take your time, your partner will want you to hurry up and lick their ass hole faster!

3. Circle the hole

Now a rim job is the true definition of this move. Move your tongue in circular motions around and above your partner’s ass hole. Start slow and tease them a bit with your tongue before moving faster or harder.

4. Make all the right shapes

There is no “right” way to use your tongue when rimming. You can make different types of shapes with your tongue. You just have to find out what turns your partner on the most.

5. Use more than your tongue

When you eat your partner’s ass you can use your hands, your chin and anything else that works to stimulate and excite your partner. And if you only focus on using your tongue, chances are you’ll soon tire yourself.

6. Change speed and direction

Tease your partner by frequently changing the direction, pressure and speed of your tongue. Remember how we said there were a lot of nerves there?

7. Use your breath

Use your breath to arouse your partner. You don’t just have to lick them, you can also blow on their anus or blow hot air on it.

8. Bite their butt

The buttocks are fleshy and voluptuous and biting them turns you and your partner on. Bite their buttocks, lick their thighs, and mix actions between licking and biting.

Just be sure not to bite their anus. This is a delicate part, which can eventually hurt them and spoil the mood.

9. Dig your tongue in

After some time, the receiver’s anus will eventually relax, this may take some time depending on how comfortable they are. When this happens, you will be able to use your tongue to dig in there.

In all likelihood, no matter how hard you try, you’ll only be able to get about a quarter of an inch in, unless your partner’s anus is really relaxed. Don’t forget to use lube if you want to enjoy it as much as your partner does!

10. Spread their cheeks

11. Folds of tongue

The anal wrinkles also contain hyper-sensitive nerve endings. So gently inspect around the folds with your tongue and then move it upwards with a firm touch.

12. Try a situation where the receiver is in control

We’re going to cover good rim job positions shortly, but it’s a good idea to try a position where the person receiving the rim job is in control.

So, this means they are standing and you are kneeling, for example. By doing this, it creates a major affective high for the recipient, which will increase their pleasure.

13. Let out a moan

14. Flatten your tongue on their anus

When you flatten your tongue, you’re able to cover more ground, meaning all parts of their anus will be in contact. Can you imagine the sensations?

15. Use your beard

If you have one, of course. But, make sure your partner doesn’t mind as it may be a little too rough or scratchy for their tastes.

Best position to eat ass

Want the best position for ass eating? Here’s what should get you started.

1. Doggy style is the easiest

2. Spread Eagle

Have your partner lie comfortably on their back and place a few pillows under their butt. Adjust the height so it aligns perfectly with your face when you go out on the town.

3. Feels cleanest in the bathtub

This works perfectly if you can get into the bathtub at the opposite end. Lift your partner’s buttocks and bring it to the level of your face.

4. Sitting facing forward

This is a good position for analingus because it allows the receiver to be in control. However, you have to make sure that they don’t sit too high on your face so that you don’t feel uncomfortable!

Hold your partner’s buttocks in your hands as they sit on your face, place a pillow under your neck and away you go!

5. 69

You can use the 69 position for ass eating, just like you would for regular oral sex.

6. Any position that works for you

Things You Can Do to Make Rimming More Enjoyable

You would definitely want to give the best possible time to your partner, and in that case, use these useful tips.

1. Mix it up with toys

We wouldn’t recommend toys for the first time, however, if you feel confident then why not. You can incorporate butt plugs, anal beads and dildos by inserting…