24 Must Knows and 15 True Stories That Aren’t So Sexy

Are you thinking about losing your virginity? Or do you want to know what it was like for other people? We’ve got all the tips and stories you want to hear.

When you were young, you probably thought that your story of “how I lost my virginity” would be the ultimate tale of hot passion, love, and romance.

Unfortunately for you and the rest of us, most first-timers are more likely to be embarrassed about losing their virginity than to rave about it.

If losing your virginity has become more comedy than romance, take comfort in knowing that you’re not alone. We’re looking at tips for losing your virginity and stories from people who… err… already have. Pleasure,

What people wish they knew before they had sex for the first time

Having sex for the first time is a big deal, and not everyone thinks about it well. So, here are some things people wish they had known before losing their virginity.

1. You may not be able to orgasm at the same time as your partner, or you may not be able to orgasm for the first time

Of course, most men achieve orgasm very easily. But for women, it is a different story. It is not that easy for them to achieve orgasm. It takes most of them a long time to understand how to do it right.

So, don’t expect pleasurable orgasms. And you definitely won’t be able to climax at the same time as your partner. Learning how to do this requires experience – sometimes years of experience.

2. It’s okay to talk about losing your virginity

And it’s understandable because you think they might be angry or disappointed with you. But this does not mean that you cannot talk to anyone.

Some parents are also understanding and want to make sure you have safe, protected sex. Therefore, you should talk about it to process the emotions that arise as a result. Choose a trusted friend or loved one.

3. Penile-vaginal sex is not the only way to lose your virginity

But gay men can lose their virginity by having anal sex, and lesbian women can also lose their virginity with a woman. Nowadays, the definition of “sex” is different for many people.

Straight people consider penis-vagina sex as sex. But people with other sexual orientations may define it differently.

4. Not everyone bleeds

Bleeding usually occurs when her hymen is broken. But the hymen can be broken in ways other than sex. For example, using a tampon can break the seal of a woman’s vagina.

5. You’ll need to prepare with lube

Many people get nervous when they have sex for the first time – especially women. And to get lubrication naturally, it takes a lot of foreplay to get her aroused and aroused.

So, make sure you have lube available when you need it. Otherwise, having sex for the first time will be painful for both involved.

6. Sex doesn’t have to be overly emotional

Many people believe that sex will bring them emotionally closer to their partner and/or result in them falling in love. Although this may be true, it is not true in all people’s cases.

But for others, it’s more emotional. Sure, you may bond more after sharing such an intimate moment, but that doesn’t mean you’ll automatically become very passionate about it.

7. Sex isn’t always magical

Many people think that losing their virginity is a magical moment in their life. We’ve all seen romantic movies where they make sex seem like a fairy tale. But this does not always happen in real life.

So, don’t expect it to be all rainbows and unicorns when you lose your virginity.

8. Even virgins can get sexually transmitted infections

Many sexually transmitted infections can be spread through oral and anal sex as well as vaginal intercourse. And some infections can also spread through skin-to-skin contact.

The most likely causes are gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, and hepatitis B. Chlamydia and human papillomavirus *HPV* are less likely to be spread through oral sex, and HIV is rarely spread this way,

9. Sex doesn’t change you

Just because you had sex for the first time and you’re no longer a virgin, doesn’t mean you’re not the same person you were before. You’re still you – you just had sex. It is not necessary that this be a life-changing or personality-altering event in your life.

Even if you grew up in a religious household where you were taught to wait until you were married to have sex, that doesn’t make you a bad person.

10. You shouldn’t have sex while drunk

If a person is nervous about having sex, he may think that having a few drinks – or a lot of drinks – will make it easier and more enjoyable. But this is not necessarily true.

It’s best to have sex for the first time when you’re sober. When you’re drunk, most people make really bad decisions. You don’t want to do something that you may regret later. You should go into it with a clear mind and intentions.

11. Sex will take a while to really feel good

Most people enjoy sex immediately. It is quite easy for them. But many women do not like it immediately.

Also, many women remain nervous and stressed, due to which their vagina also becomes extremely tight. Once she learns to relax, she will enjoy sex more than the first time.

12. Your partner is also nervous

If you are both virgins, you are both probably nervous. Even if only one of you is a virgin, the non-virgin may also be nervous because they want to make it a good experience for the virgins.

There’s no need to put on a brave face if you don’t feel comfortable. Communication is always important in any relationship, especially when you are losing your virginity.

13. I should have only told my inner friends

If you’re young and in school, you know how gossip can spread. And let’s say a teenage girl slept with a boy she didn’t know at a party, she may not want to have a relationship with him or even talk to him again.

Therefore, you should keep the fact that you have lost your virginity to yourself and a few close, trusted friends.

14. Sex isn’t just about your partner

Many people are so focused on pleasing their partner that they don’t pay as much attention to their own happiness as they should. Sure, it’s great to make sure your partner is enjoying themselves, but you should enjoy yourself too.

15. Sex can hurt in completely unexpected ways

Ideally, sex is a beautiful thing that feels good physically and emotionally. But for some people this is not always the case.

Sex can actually be physically harmful for some people depending on their anatomy – for both men and women. And this can not only hurt physically, but it can also hurt emotionally if the relationship doesn’t work out.

16. Honesty is the best policy

Not only should you talk about it beforehand, but you should also check in with each other while having sex to make sure the other person is feeling good.

Afterwards, talk about how the experience was for them and what you can do differently next time.

Losing Your Virginity – Other Tips You Need to Know

1. Use security

2. Never have sex because you feel pressured to do so

3. Have sex with someone you trust

You definitely don’t want to lose your virginity to a stranger or even a one-night stand. Make sure you’re in a relationship with someone you trust and love – and who loves you back.

4. Ladies, make sure you are fully aroused and wet before attempting intercourse.

5. For women, ask your partner to rub your clitoris, or use a vibrator on yourself during sex

The clitoris is filled with thousands of nerve endings but is not directly stimulated through intercourse. That’s why your hand or sex toy always comes in handy. It will relax your body and make you feel good! Plus, this will give you a better chance of having an orgasm.

6. Men, take your time

You may also want to practice holding back ejaculation while jerking off in preparation for the big day. Hey, it’s your first time, no one is expecting you to last an hour, but 10 minutes will be awesome for your girlfriend.

7. make it comfortable

You don’t want your “how I lost my virginity” experience to end with you squirming in the back of a smelly van or running into the basement before your parents get home.

Although you don’t have to recreate a romance novel, at least try to make it romantic for the other person involved. And let them know that you enjoyed sharing that moment.

8. Don’t stress!

First Time Sex Stories – The Good, the Bad and the Very Ugly How I Lost My Virginity

Want to see how your virginity story turns out? Here is a collection of 15 true “how I lost my virginity” stories for your enjoyment.

how i lost my virginity – good

1. I lost my virginity to my high school boyfriend when I was 17. He was really sweet and knew I wanted to wait, so after being together for almost a year it finally happened.

2. I lost my virginity to my wife, and I couldn’t be happier. When my friends found out I’d only ever been with Sarah, I was mortified, but I like it that way.

I love the security that comes from just being with one girl and knowing that we’re both in a committed relationship – not the high school one. For me, nothing beats that. -Derek LG

I hear some of my girlfriends complain about how their new boyfriend doesn’t make them as happy as their previous boyfriend.

Although in this day and age it seems embarrassing to say that I have only been with one man, I feel great knowing that I will never have the same problems that I have with my girlfriends.

Our first time was romantic and perfect, with dozens of candles and lots of kissing! -Alexa

4. When I was 18 I lost my virginity to a girl I knew was going to be very special. After hanging out for about a week, we quickly hit it off. We did this in her bedroom while both her parents were at work.

I was awkwardly groping around, and I know she didn’t enjoy it because she was blunt enough to tell me so. She became pregnant immediately.

I know it sounds like a disaster, but I was and still am crazy about this woman. We have been married for 22 years now. -Ron S.

5. The first time I had sex was on a drunken camping trip when I was 19. I slept with my best friend in the back of a truck at a camping site, and I’m not even kidding, a raccoon jumped into the car while we were there. Were going at it.

how i lost my virginity – bad

6. My first date was with a guy I met at a frat party. I was a new college student and was desperate to no longer be a virgin.

I had all these notions that sex would be painful, and I would bleed so badly that I would need to be on alert at the end of the night. None of it was true!

Instead, I had a quickie with some dick that I awkwardly bumped into for the rest of my college years. -Tiffany E.

7. I slept with my high school girlfriend the night before. It was all extremely awkward, especially when she told me she had her period and asked if I was ready for it yet.

It all went out the window when he saw the graphic mess we left on his bed sheets. Great experience, but disgusting results. -Kevin B.

8. I was actually that girl whose first penetration experience was anal. I thought I loved the guy, but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to give him my virginity or not, so we left. Yes, I know, cliché.

I really wish anal wasn’t my first…